the fairy & the moon

the fairy & the moon

August Self Love Practice: Feeling Alive Again

moving through burnout and back into joy, confidence, and inspiration

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rhiana meri ✧.*🫧✩
Aug 01, 2026
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hi my lovely community! welcome to your august self love practice. i spoke to a number of you in our subscriber chat, and so many people voted for the theme of “feeling alive again” and I cant say I wasn’t super excited… because that’s exactly the theme that I have been moving through myself, and I would love nothing more than for us all to do it together.

as I sat with this topic, I began to think a lot about the sort of mindsets that bring us to this place of disconnection, burnout, and boredom. it often starts as disappointment regarding the mundane, the kinds that feel righteous. we begin to cling on to these negative notions, and we walk our way into a fully-developed glass half empty mindset. suddenly, we are looking around at our daily life and we have completely forgotten the art of romanticizing. all we see is what is wrong, what is not enough, what is missing, what is empty.

and instead of feeling truly inspired or invigorated or motivated, we find ourselves doomscrolling, taking a look at the lives of people who seemingly have what we think we are missing. we find ourselves daydreaming about a different life not out of a grounded practice of manifestation, but from a place of wanting to be anywhere else but here.

and because so much of our mental energy is going to wishing, hoping, and imagining a different “better” reality, we are actually stuck. we aren’t moving. we aren’t taking action. we aren’t believing in ourselves. we are just sitting, stuck in the quicksand, letting it take us deeper and deeper and deeper.

but what if we could transform this? what if we could take these feelings, because they are valid and they do matter, but instead of mixing it with apathy, comparison, dread, and doom — we make a new recipe. one with equal parts gratitude, self esteem, passion, and vision.

what if we took this energy and decided that we were going to romanticize the right now. that we were going to remember the beauty of what is here and now, that we would begin to notice the way the sunlight hits the bedroom again, and that we would pair this with true, grounded, inspiration and action.

welcome to your “Feeling Alive Again” self love practice. we are going to do a number of special practices together, all curated to bring us to a brand new place, but rooted in gratitude, awareness, and mindfulness.


Inside August’s Self Love Practice: Feeling Alive Again

over the next four weeks, we are going to move through four curated & interwoven practices. my hope is that by the end you will have a fresh out look on life, a resurgence of gratitude, and a glowing spark of inspiration.

there will be reflections from me, journal exercises, full routines of self love practices, mindset shifts, and real life action steps.

week one: remember when you wanted what you currently have

week two: truly enjoy what is right in front of you

week three: dream from a foundation of gratitude

week four: create a weekly rhythm of receiving and becoming

Continue the August practice with us

The complete four week Feeling Alive Again practice continues below for paid readers, with guided exercises to help you:

✦ rediscover appreciation for the life you have already created
✦ intentionally experience and romanticize what is right in front of you
✦ reconnect with your dreams from a foundation of gratitude
✦ create a weekly rhythm that makes space for both enjoying your life and moving toward what you desire

When you join us this August, you’ll unlock this entire practice immediately, along with everything else arriving inside our monthly self love rhythm:

When you become a paid reader, here is what lands in your inbox each month:

You’ll receive three private letters and practices every month, each supporting a different part of building a loving and trustworthy relationship with yourself:

🌙 The Monthly Self Love Practice: helps you explore one meaningful theme through guided reflection, real life practice, self love dates, and little acts of devotion.

📓 The Monthly Guided Journal Deep Dive: A thoughtful collection of intentional journal prompts to help you explore one part of your inner life, uncover what is beneath the surface, and understand yourself more deeply.

🕯 The Mid-Month Return: A gentle letter from me in the middle of each month, helping you reconnect with yourself, return to the month’s practice, and begin again without shame or pressure.

Plus seasonal Self-Love Care Packages, occasional surprise letters, and immediate access to the complete Lessons in Self Love library including every past lesson, practice, meditation, guided journal collection, and resource.

It is a steady monthly rhythm of reflection, practice, and return—created to help you bring self-love beyond the page and into your actual life.

Join us below to unlock August’s Feeling Alive Again and begin your August practice 💌

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hi lessons in self love crew!

before you begin, I invite you to save this post somewhere you can easily return to it.

I crafted this practice to have structure as well as ample room to flow.

consider choosing one quiet moment each week, maybe a sunday morning or a solo evening to read over the coming week’s section <3

I love you!!!


practice 01 | week one: remember when you wanted what you currently have?

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