Manifesting in Your Soft Girl Era: A Gentle Guide to Creating Your Dream Life

deep dive guide to self love style of vision boarding, journaling, manifestation

✧.*excuse me! i am creating my dream life!*✧

i don’t know about you, but i am a liiiiiiittle tired of the wellness rat race. the obsession with constant self improving, perfection, 0 seed oils, 57 green juices, and being your skinniest self — instead of your calmest, most peaceful, most joyful, most loved self.

welcome to your vision boarding & manifestation guide — but make it self love style. and yes! you can put all of the lovely wellness, goals, and self improvement in here too. what’s different is we will be emphasizing slowness, low-energy, intuitive hits, and connection with our truest selves. you in? let’s go!

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❥ one: tune in (to you) & tune out (the noise)

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before we begin vision boarding, dreaming, or manifesting, we need to turn out the noise. we are without a doubt, overly saturated with other people’s ideas. we are surrounded and bombarded with other people’s wins, dreams, losses, hopes, and goals. and our subconscious mind is taking it all in, and it doesn’t need our awareness. one moment we see someone on tiktok going for a specific goal (or achieving that goal) and day later we are knee-deep in a thought process of deciding that is what we need, too.

so let’s tune out that noise. and tune in to our true selves.

some options for doing this:

♥ simple guided meditation

(youtube has great options for this, and many of my lessons in self love articles include guided meditations!)

♥ breathwork sequence

♥ prayer

♥ pulling cards

♥ yoga

♥ journaling

allow your the volume on your true self to turn up, while the volume on the world around you turns down.

you will see how when you finally begin to release the expectations of others, your true desires begin to emerge.

❥ two: get inspired

now that we have made sure we are tuned in to our true self, we have the space and room to go gather inspiration. you can take this inspiration onto a vision board or a journaling practice.

here are some ways to gather inspiration:

♥ sit outside with nothing but your journal

pick a spot, any spot. somewhere with nature, somewhere you can sit comfortably. and give yourself 45 minutes to sit, ponder, be, and witness.

witness the way the trees move in the breeze, the way people are dressing in your local town, the butterflies that fly past you, the smell of coffee.

witness. and jot down or doodle what brings you joy.

♥ the OG vision board

we need magazines, books, newspapers, you name it. grab it. and a pair of scissors. make clippings of what sparks joy.

♥ the beloved pinterest scroll

now, i am a pinterest girllllyyyy. there is so much possibility for you to curate it to what is sparking your interest. create a new board for this vision boarding excercise. think of the things that have come up through your past excercises.

❥ three: put it all together

here are some ways to bring it all together:

♥ the board

this might be one of my favorites. grab your print outs, notes you’ve taken, some pins, and a cork board. have FUN. put them on there and put it somewhere you can keep looking at!

♥ the lock screen

this is a brilliant way to take power over the amount of times we pick up our phones. make a digital collage with your inspo, and throw it on your phone’s lock screen!

♥ the journal vision board

throw everything into a journal spread. seperate the boards into themes if you’d like… and this way you get to keep it forever!

♥ the guided self love & manifestation journal

i made you something very very special!!!

a safe, inspiring, cozy space for you to land.

a place to dream, plan, and inspire self love.

i am so excited for you to have this and begin manifesting with self love!!!

If you want somewhere beautiful to collect your visions, intentions, routines, and rituals…
*ੈ✩‧₊˚Meet the manifestation planner I made for you.
Think: dreamy pages, soft structure, and gentle guidance.
I hope it becomes your new favorite ritual.

❥ four: the cherry on top: using astrology to manifest

some things to look out for on your chart:

jupiter, the north node, the 10th house, and your rising sign!

PS — for my paid fairies…
I’m doing a full deep-dive on how to manifest using your astrology chart:
Jupiter, your North Node, the 10th house, + way more AND timing your manifestations with transits.

It’s dropping this week exclusively for paid subscribers.
Consider joining the cozy circle if you want the next step.

i love you all so much, and i am SO excited to see what you create!!! please tell me all about it. you deserve the best and softest life.

p.s. im holding a survey right now for my readers, so you can share your thoughts with me as the year closes. i’d love to hear your thoughts!!